Science Identifies Four Lover Types: One Group's 10-Times-a-Week Intimacy

Unveiling the Four Types of Lovers: From Mild to Libidinous
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A groundbreaking study by Australian National University has categorized romantic love into four distinct types, challenging taboos around discussing sex and relationships. Surveying 809 individuals aged 18–25, researchers identified patterns in love intensity, commitment, obsessive thinking, and sexual frequency. Here’s a breakdown of the findings:

1. Mild Lovers (20% of participants)

Sex frequency: 2 times/week.
Traits: Least intense in love, short-lived relationships, and lower commitment.
Demographics: Mostly male (59%), more likely to engage in risky behaviors (drinking, drugs, reckless driving).
Relationships: Lowest satisfaction rates; partners often unsure about mutual feelings.

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2. Moderate Lovers (41% of participants)

Sex frequency: 2.5 times/week.
Traits: Balanced intensity, stable commitment, and minimal obsessive thoughts.
Demographics: Slightly more male (58%), least likely to have children or use antidepressants.
Relationships: Practical and low-drama, but less emotionally charged.

3. Intense Lovers (29% of participants)

Sex frequency: 3 times/week.
Traits: Passionate, deeply committed, and emotionally invested.
Demographics: Mostly female (60%), highest relationship satisfaction.
Habits: Avoid risky behaviors; often fall in love before formalizing relationships.

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4. Libidinous Lovers (9.6% of participants)

Sex frequency: 10 times/week.
Traits: Extremely high sexual activity, strong commitment, and low anxiety/depression.
Demographics: Slightly more male, report the highest quality of life.
Relationships: Longest-lasting love, with mutual certainty of feelings.

Why This Matters

The study suggests these categories reflect evolutionary strategies for mate selection. “Variation in romantic love indicates it may still be subject to evolutionary pressures,” researchers noted. Libidinous and intense lovers, for instance, may prioritize bonding, while mild lovers might focus on short-term connections.

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Final Takeaway: Whether you’re a mild romantic or a libidinous enthusiast, love’s diversity ensures there’s no “one-size-fits-all” in relationships—a testament to human complexity.

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