Test Your Flirting Skills: 5-Minute Quiz to See How You Stack Up Against Peers

From James Bond to Jessica Rabbit, iconic movie characters dazzle with flirtatious charm. But in real life, many struggle with romantic banter. Are you a skilled flirt? Psychology Today’s five-minute test reveals your flirting style across five categories: physical, playful, polite, sincere, and traditional.

James Bond and Jessica Rabbit epitomize on-screen flirtation.

What’s Your Flirting Style?

The test, tailored for men and women, includes 20 statements like, “I try to be humble when flirting” (for men) or “I toss my hair while flirting” (for women). Participants rate their agreement on a scale. Scores range from 0–100, with averages at 66 for men and 68 for women.

Sample questions from Psychology Today’s flirting style test.

How Did You Score?

• 0–24: “Not a flirty person.” Direct communication is your preference.
• 25–39: Subtly flirtatious. Charm isn’t your go-to, but you can turn it on.
• 60–68: Moderately flirtatious. Balanced between sincerity and playful banter.
• 69–86: Naturally flirtatious. You excel at romantic intrigue but may lead others on.
• 87–100: Master flirt. A natural with an air of mystery.

Understanding your flirting score and its implications.

Flirting Tips from Science

A 2022 study by the Norwegian University of Science and Technology highlights effective tactics:

• For men: Be funny and generous.
• For women: Show availability and laugh at jokes.

Avoid common pitfalls like poor hygiene, arrogance, or lack of humor. Other deterrents include clinginess, stinginess, or differing values.

Why Are Some People Single?

Research cites 43 reasons, including low self-esteem, poor flirting skills, or prioritizing independence. Top factors are shallow dating pools, social anxiety, and misplaced priorities.

Ready to test your charm? Take Psychology Today’s quiz here.