Unveiling the Hidden Motivation Behind Young Men’s Frequent Hand-in-Pants Habit
Why Young Men Keep Their Hands Down Their Trousers: Experts Explain
You’ve likely spotted young men with their hands in their pants—on public transit, streets, or even in pop culture. From Bruno Mars’ 2010 lyrics to actors like Tom Hardy, the trend raises eyebrows. Body language and sociology experts reveal surprising reasons behind this habit.
Nervous Energy & Self-Comfort
Body language expert Martin Brooks calls it a “displacement activity” to channel nervous energy. “Rubbing certain body parts releases oxytocin, a calming hormone,” he explains. This self-soothing behavior, similar to beard-stroking, mixes comfort with subconscious rebellion against societal norms.
Tom Hardy pictured with hands in his trousers during a walk with his wife.
Shifting Societal Norms
Lockdowns blurred public etiquette—think pajamas in supermarkets. Darren Stanton, a behavioral expert, notes post-pandemic acceptance of casual behaviors. Dr. Frank Furedi adds that men now feel less pressured to hide “sexual stuff,” openly signaling comfort with their bodies.
Rebellion & Masculinity
Brooks links the habit to youthful defiance: “It’s like smoking—a way to say, ‘I’ll do what I like.’” Stars like rapper Central Cee flaunt it boldly, while Kit Harrington’s awkward poses suggest a mix of discomfort and assertion.
Central Cee’s red-carpet pose at The Fashion Awards 2022.
Health & Habit
Dr. Babak Ashrafi cites practical reasons: adjusting for comfort, itching, or temperature control. But psychological triggers like stress or boredom also play roles. “It’s often a mindless coping mechanism,” he says.
The Takeaway
Whether for comfort, rebellion, or oxytocin boosts, the trend reflects evolving masculinity and post-pandemic norms. Next time you spot it, know there’s more beneath the surface—literally.
Changing norms let men express masculinity differently (stock image).
Why It Happens
- Displacement activity for nerves
- Signaling masculinity or rebellion
- Comfort, hygiene, or habit
- Oxytocin-driven self-soothing
This quirky habit isn’t just a fad—it’s a blend of biology, psychology, and shifting culture.
